It seems nothing brings young, white, cisgender Evangelical guys together, quite like talking smack about “the gays.” Yesterday I watched a group of such folks interacting on a friend’s timeline as

“They’re disrespecting the flag!” “They’re disrespecting the Anthem!” “They’re disrespecting the Military!” These have been the constant refrains from many people over the past week (most of them white) in

The calendar can be cruel sometimes. There is a rhythm to our lives; a muscle memory that develops over time as we live and develop patterns of being here. The

Growing up, I learned from the men and women around me what it meant to be a gentleman; how decent, good-hearted, honorable men lived in the world, the way they