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We Need To Save The Children From QAnons
“Oh, no.” I thought to myself. “She’s one of them.” I’d been hearing about these people for a few weeks: a supposedly rapidly-growing cultic movement of mostly white, upper-middle class

Take A Day and Save America
How much is America worth to you? What would you sacrifice in order to stop the suffering you’re seeing every day on the news and on your timeline and in

Donald Trump Can’t Condemn White Supremacy. It’s All He Has.
Dear Suburban White People in America, Donald Trump is right: you should be very afraid. Though, just not of the people he tells you to fear. I know this year

I Hate Police Brutality, Not the Police
I support the protestors, so I am against the police. That’s the lie I hear every single day in America. It’s a myth perpetuated by this President and his

Jesus Christians Would Wear Masks
Every day I watch Christians violently attacking God. They fill churches without distancing and without masks. They defy restrictions designed to stop the spread of this virus. They malign the

Trump’s Attacks on the US Postal Service are Attacks on America
Growing up, I was fascinated by the Dead Letter Office: the room in the Post Office where undeliverable mail went; letters and packages without decipherable addresses and with no return

MAGAs Are in An Abusive Relationship With Donald Trump
Photo: Fresco/Getty It’s heartbreaking to see someone you love in a toxic relationship: watching them be continually torn down and berated, treated with complete disregard, humiliated publicly over and over

The Year We Lost
Yesterday, I asked my readers to tell me about something they missed this year because of the lockdowns and restrictions: a date, event, trip, or occasion they were looking forward

The Weakness of MAGA Men
Beta Male. Soy Boy. Cuck. These are the labels Trump supporters, (especially the dudes) readily lob like verbal grenades at guys like me, who push back against the unfettered cruelty

This is What “Hurts God,” Donald
Dear Donald. I heard you claim that Joe Biden will “hurt God.” I know you don’t know anything about the God Joe Biden has spent his life worshipping and following

Trump’s Presidency Killed Relationships—and We’re All Grieving
I’ll never understand it. As long as I live, it will never really make sense to me. Yeah, I’ve read all the research, analyzed all the data, digested a thousand

What It Felt Like To Have A President Again
Photo: Alyssa Pointer/Pool via Reuters I almost forgot what that felt like. To have a human being, the most powerful human being on the planet, stand before the nation and

I’m Voting Against Trump. I’ve Already Won.
His supporters lack creativity. They respond similarly to factual information about his recklessness, his incompetence, his ugliness. When confronted by me with clear, irrefutable evidence of his unfitness for the

I’m Done With America
Yesterday was a long year. I’d only been up for four hours, which was about the length of time I’d slept the night before, and already I’d been beaten relentlessly

The Problem With American Christianity Isn’t Jesus
I meet thousands of people every year who rightly recoil against Christianity in America, who are fully sickened by its insidious influence in our political system; who see it as

John Lewis Has Left The Good Trouble to Us
John Lewis has left this place. After eight decades braving taunts and threats and bruises and broken bones, trying to make the world that could be out the world that

Republican Friend, If Trump Was A Democrat—I Wouldn’t Have Voted for Him.
Republican friends, if I were in your shoes this wouldn’t be difficult. The decision wouldn’t even be in question. It would be a no-brainer. You wouldn’t need to attempt to

These Are Difficult Days. Keep Going. You’re Doing Great.
Hey. I don’t know whether anyone’s told you lately or not, but you’re doing a great job. Really. You probably don’t feel that way, but under the conditions that’s understandable.

America Has No Business Opening Schools Right Now
The President wants schools open in the Fall and he’s threatening to withhold funding to those that refuse—this while several states are seeing record numbers of new cases. This is

Joe Biden Is Not Ahead
Some people haven’t learned anything in four years. One of the most disconcerting trends I see on social media right now, is a continual dissemination of polls, statistics, and trends

White Republican Friend, It Doesn’t Seem Like “All Lives Matter” to You
White Republican friend, we need to talk. Recently, people all around this nation began waking up to the pervasive inequities and racial disparities and police brutality here, and many for

Republicans Are Terrified of American Voters. They Should Be.
These Republicans are telling you something right now, America. If you listen carefully, you can hear them. With every panicked and quivering move they are clearly testifying. They are confirming

The White Privilege of Ignoring the News
Yesterday, an old friend of mine who happens to be white, posted her frustration with the proliferation of news sources: the difficulty discerning what was true in the swirling storm

Not Wearing A Mask Is a Stupid Hill to Die on, America
Yesterday, I stumbled into a war zone. A friend of mine was being besieged on social media by a furious crossfire of rapid-fire vitriol from a disparate army of toddler

We Need To Save The Children From QAnons
“Oh, no.” I thought to myself. “She’s one of them.” I’d been hearing about these people for a few weeks: a supposedly rapidly-growing cultic movement of mostly white, upper-middle class

Take A Day and Save America
How much is America worth to you? What would you sacrifice in order to stop the suffering you’re seeing every day on the news and on your timeline and in

Donald Trump Can’t Condemn White Supremacy. It’s All He Has.
Dear Suburban White People in America, Donald Trump is right: you should be very afraid. Though, just not of the people he tells you to fear. I know this year

I Hate Police Brutality, Not the Police
I support the protestors, so I am against the police. That’s the lie I hear every single day in America. It’s a myth perpetuated by this President and his

Jesus Christians Would Wear Masks
Every day I watch Christians violently attacking God. They fill churches without distancing and without masks. They defy restrictions designed to stop the spread of this virus. They malign the

Trump’s Attacks on the US Postal Service are Attacks on America
Growing up, I was fascinated by the Dead Letter Office: the room in the Post Office where undeliverable mail went; letters and packages without decipherable addresses and with no return

MAGAs Are in An Abusive Relationship With Donald Trump
Photo: Fresco/Getty It’s heartbreaking to see someone you love in a toxic relationship: watching them be continually torn down and berated, treated with complete disregard, humiliated publicly over and over

The Year We Lost
Yesterday, I asked my readers to tell me about something they missed this year because of the lockdowns and restrictions: a date, event, trip, or occasion they were looking forward

The Weakness of MAGA Men
Beta Male. Soy Boy. Cuck. These are the labels Trump supporters, (especially the dudes) readily lob like verbal grenades at guys like me, who push back against the unfettered cruelty

This is What “Hurts God,” Donald
Dear Donald. I heard you claim that Joe Biden will “hurt God.” I know you don’t know anything about the God Joe Biden has spent his life worshipping and following

Trump’s Presidency Killed Relationships—and We’re All Grieving
I’ll never understand it. As long as I live, it will never really make sense to me. Yeah, I’ve read all the research, analyzed all the data, digested a thousand

What It Felt Like To Have A President Again
Photo: Alyssa Pointer/Pool via Reuters I almost forgot what that felt like. To have a human being, the most powerful human being on the planet, stand before the nation and

I’m Voting Against Trump. I’ve Already Won.
His supporters lack creativity. They respond similarly to factual information about his recklessness, his incompetence, his ugliness. When confronted by me with clear, irrefutable evidence of his unfitness for the

I’m Done With America
Yesterday was a long year. I’d only been up for four hours, which was about the length of time I’d slept the night before, and already I’d been beaten relentlessly

The Problem With American Christianity Isn’t Jesus
I meet thousands of people every year who rightly recoil against Christianity in America, who are fully sickened by its insidious influence in our political system; who see it as

John Lewis Has Left The Good Trouble to Us
John Lewis has left this place. After eight decades braving taunts and threats and bruises and broken bones, trying to make the world that could be out the world that

Republican Friend, If Trump Was A Democrat—I Wouldn’t Have Voted for Him.
Republican friends, if I were in your shoes this wouldn’t be difficult. The decision wouldn’t even be in question. It would be a no-brainer. You wouldn’t need to attempt to

These Are Difficult Days. Keep Going. You’re Doing Great.
Hey. I don’t know whether anyone’s told you lately or not, but you’re doing a great job. Really. You probably don’t feel that way, but under the conditions that’s understandable.

America Has No Business Opening Schools Right Now
The President wants schools open in the Fall and he’s threatening to withhold funding to those that refuse—this while several states are seeing record numbers of new cases. This is

Joe Biden Is Not Ahead
Some people haven’t learned anything in four years. One of the most disconcerting trends I see on social media right now, is a continual dissemination of polls, statistics, and trends

White Republican Friend, It Doesn’t Seem Like “All Lives Matter” to You
White Republican friend, we need to talk. Recently, people all around this nation began waking up to the pervasive inequities and racial disparities and police brutality here, and many for

Republicans Are Terrified of American Voters. They Should Be.
These Republicans are telling you something right now, America. If you listen carefully, you can hear them. With every panicked and quivering move they are clearly testifying. They are confirming

The White Privilege of Ignoring the News
Yesterday, an old friend of mine who happens to be white, posted her frustration with the proliferation of news sources: the difficulty discerning what was true in the swirling storm

Not Wearing A Mask Is a Stupid Hill to Die on, America
Yesterday, I stumbled into a war zone. A friend of mine was being besieged on social media by a furious crossfire of rapid-fire vitriol from a disparate army of toddler