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Choosing Mental Health, Simone Biles Has Already Won
Simone Biles has already won. Tokyo will have no say in the matter. These Olympics will not be the last word. Her professional resume speaks for itself. Her physical prowess,

How to Become an Influencer
People often refer to me as an influencer and ask me how I became one. They invite to influencer gatherings and put me on influencer conference panels and ask me

The Sadness of Sharing a Country With Trump Supporters
A similar thing happens to me on many mornings lately. My eyes open and I suddenly become aware that I’m awake. My mind quickly begins assembling the first few seconds of my day

For Conservatives, The Cruelty isn’t the Point—Power is
The cruelty is the point. I’ve heard people use this phrase when speaking about Conservatives in America for a while now. In the face of a decision as objectively adversarial

Our Family Got Vaccinated. We All Got COVID. We’ll All Live.
Two weeks ago, we took a family trip out of state, our first in eighteen months. Three-quarters of us had been fully vaccinated with two doses of the Pfizer shot,

Bill Cosby and the Second Trauma of Abuse Survivors
(Trigger warning: discussion of sexual assault, rape, abuse, violence) Bill Cosby is free. The 60 women he assaulted are not. As he steps into the undeserved light of a life

God is Nonbinary
He’s got the whole world, in His hands… I learned this song so long ago that I actually don’t remember learning it. It seemingly came with my default operating system:

The Grief We Postponed for a Year
Last night I was talking to a group of people about the last year and a half and the toll it’s taken on all of us. They inventoried the familiar

I Don’t Like America
I used to think I loved America. I used to fully believe in its greatness. Growing up, I bought into its songs and its anthems and its stirring mythology of

I’m a Christian Pastor. Evangelicals Have to Be Defeated
I’ve been a pastor in the church for over two decades, much of that in predominantly white churches in the American South. I’ve spent countless hours in church staff meetings

It’s Courageous to Be LGBTQ and in the Closet, Too
As an affirming student pastor, I have been given a profound gift. For decades, hundreds of people (many of them in their teens and early twenties) have entrusted me with

Terrorists Don’t Deserve Bipartisanship
For months I’ve been hearing about pursuing a bipartisan America; about this nation needing to forge a new spirit of political collaboration if we ever hope to bridge the massive

If MAGA Christianity is Christianity, I’m Not a Christian—and Neither is Jesus
I used to think I was a Christian. I’ve been a pastor in the local church for twenty-five years and a believer for most of my life. I’ve spent decades

Here’s What I Know About Israel and Palestine
Yesterday, someone said to me, “Will you please say something about the violence happening right now between Israel and Palestine?” “At least tell people what side you’re on” she added.

Why I’m Never Putting a Joe Biden Flag on My Truck
I was talking to a coworker today. (OK, well, technically I was arguing with an anonymous Twitter troll—but hey, work is work, right?) As Patriot45FreedomGuy launched a fierce barrage of

Evangelicals Don’t Hate Cancel Culture, They Invented it
Every day I see Christians lamenting the “Cancel Culture;” claiming whenever they face accountability for their words or their conduct, or for the policies or politicians they support—that they are

Conservatives are Not Getting Vaccinated, to Own the Libs
Today, I received a text from our local pharmacy here in North Carolina, asking us to contact two friends or family members and tell them to get vaccinated. That this

To Republicans, Decency is “Woke”
The politics of fear is nothing new. We’ve seen it throughout history. It’s a well-worn playbook. When you lack actual ideas, you need an enemy. When you have nothing redemptive

The Coffee You Won’t Get to Drink (A Reflection On Dying and Living)
Seven years ago my parents went on a cruise to celebrate my father’s 70th birthday. My family and I happened to call them just as they were sailing away. We

A Bucket List for America
Today, my daughter told me she was a working on a bucket list, which surprised me because she’s only 11. She soon clarified that it was a Summer 2021 bucket

If You Don’t a Have a Mental Illness, Here’s What It’s Like
Dear Friends, If you don’t suffer from a mental illness, there’s something you need to know about those of us who do, because it may be impossible for us to

One Day in Two Americas (The Life of Dererk Chauvin and the Death of Ma’Khia Bryant)
We saw two Americas in a single day. As Officer Derek Chauvin’s fate was being decided by a jury in a Minneapolis courtroom, Columbus, Ohio Police were deciding 16-year-old Ma’Khia

Tired of Talking About Privilege? Then You Have It.
A friend recently said to me, “John, I’m so tired of hearing about white privilege. I get, enough already.” Not surprisingly, she was not a person of color. Being tired

If Your Church is Silent About Racism—You Should Leave it
Sunday is coming. Soon, millions of Americans will find themselves in the houses of worship that dot nearly every corner of this country; disparate buildings where they’ll gather under the

Choosing Mental Health, Simone Biles Has Already Won
Simone Biles has already won. Tokyo will have no say in the matter. These Olympics will not be the last word. Her professional resume speaks for itself. Her physical prowess,

How to Become an Influencer
People often refer to me as an influencer and ask me how I became one. They invite to influencer gatherings and put me on influencer conference panels and ask me

The Sadness of Sharing a Country With Trump Supporters
A similar thing happens to me on many mornings lately. My eyes open and I suddenly become aware that I’m awake. My mind quickly begins assembling the first few seconds of my day

For Conservatives, The Cruelty isn’t the Point—Power is
The cruelty is the point. I’ve heard people use this phrase when speaking about Conservatives in America for a while now. In the face of a decision as objectively adversarial

Our Family Got Vaccinated. We All Got COVID. We’ll All Live.
Two weeks ago, we took a family trip out of state, our first in eighteen months. Three-quarters of us had been fully vaccinated with two doses of the Pfizer shot,

Bill Cosby and the Second Trauma of Abuse Survivors
(Trigger warning: discussion of sexual assault, rape, abuse, violence) Bill Cosby is free. The 60 women he assaulted are not. As he steps into the undeserved light of a life

God is Nonbinary
He’s got the whole world, in His hands… I learned this song so long ago that I actually don’t remember learning it. It seemingly came with my default operating system:

The Grief We Postponed for a Year
Last night I was talking to a group of people about the last year and a half and the toll it’s taken on all of us. They inventoried the familiar

I Don’t Like America
I used to think I loved America. I used to fully believe in its greatness. Growing up, I bought into its songs and its anthems and its stirring mythology of

I’m a Christian Pastor. Evangelicals Have to Be Defeated
I’ve been a pastor in the church for over two decades, much of that in predominantly white churches in the American South. I’ve spent countless hours in church staff meetings

It’s Courageous to Be LGBTQ and in the Closet, Too
As an affirming student pastor, I have been given a profound gift. For decades, hundreds of people (many of them in their teens and early twenties) have entrusted me with

Terrorists Don’t Deserve Bipartisanship
For months I’ve been hearing about pursuing a bipartisan America; about this nation needing to forge a new spirit of political collaboration if we ever hope to bridge the massive

If MAGA Christianity is Christianity, I’m Not a Christian—and Neither is Jesus
I used to think I was a Christian. I’ve been a pastor in the local church for twenty-five years and a believer for most of my life. I’ve spent decades

Here’s What I Know About Israel and Palestine
Yesterday, someone said to me, “Will you please say something about the violence happening right now between Israel and Palestine?” “At least tell people what side you’re on” she added.

Why I’m Never Putting a Joe Biden Flag on My Truck
I was talking to a coworker today. (OK, well, technically I was arguing with an anonymous Twitter troll—but hey, work is work, right?) As Patriot45FreedomGuy launched a fierce barrage of

Evangelicals Don’t Hate Cancel Culture, They Invented it
Every day I see Christians lamenting the “Cancel Culture;” claiming whenever they face accountability for their words or their conduct, or for the policies or politicians they support—that they are

Conservatives are Not Getting Vaccinated, to Own the Libs
Today, I received a text from our local pharmacy here in North Carolina, asking us to contact two friends or family members and tell them to get vaccinated. That this

To Republicans, Decency is “Woke”
The politics of fear is nothing new. We’ve seen it throughout history. It’s a well-worn playbook. When you lack actual ideas, you need an enemy. When you have nothing redemptive

The Coffee You Won’t Get to Drink (A Reflection On Dying and Living)
Seven years ago my parents went on a cruise to celebrate my father’s 70th birthday. My family and I happened to call them just as they were sailing away. We

A Bucket List for America
Today, my daughter told me she was a working on a bucket list, which surprised me because she’s only 11. She soon clarified that it was a Summer 2021 bucket

If You Don’t a Have a Mental Illness, Here’s What It’s Like
Dear Friends, If you don’t suffer from a mental illness, there’s something you need to know about those of us who do, because it may be impossible for us to

One Day in Two Americas (The Life of Dererk Chauvin and the Death of Ma’Khia Bryant)
We saw two Americas in a single day. As Officer Derek Chauvin’s fate was being decided by a jury in a Minneapolis courtroom, Columbus, Ohio Police were deciding 16-year-old Ma’Khia

Tired of Talking About Privilege? Then You Have It.
A friend recently said to me, “John, I’m so tired of hearing about white privilege. I get, enough already.” Not surprisingly, she was not a person of color. Being tired

If Your Church is Silent About Racism—You Should Leave it
Sunday is coming. Soon, millions of Americans will find themselves in the houses of worship that dot nearly every corner of this country; disparate buildings where they’ll gather under the