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Please Stop Calling Suicide Victims Selfish or Weak
Soon after news broke about the death of Linkin Park singer Chester Bennington, amid the flood of condolences and the raw expressions of grief and shock—came the others; the ones

No, Being Gay (or Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender) is Not a Sin
Being gay is not a sin. Neither is being lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. The Bible never claims that it is. It really doesn’t. Christians should stop saying it because it’s

John McCain’s Illness is a Tragedy—and That’s Why The Healthcare Debate Matters
John McCain seems like a good and decent man, and his Cancer diagnosis is horrific. It’s the kind of news that makes you sick to your stomach; a tragedy for

Why the Atheists, Agnostics, and Non-Christians Will Save The Church
During a Q & A following a session at Wild Goose Festival, a man asked if I ever considered starting a church. I answered that I didn’t think so, because most

At This Point, I Don’t Care Why You Still Support This President
I care deeply about people. My efficacy and usefulness as a pastor and caregiver (and as a decent member of humanity), is predicated on knowing how people’s hearts work, the

Eugene Peterson, LifeWay—and the Big, Green God of American Christianity
A lot can change in a day… Last week, influential Christian pastor Eugene Peterson came out in support of LGBTQ inclusion and gay marriage. It was a massive tremor in

To the Guys Who “Outed Me” This Week
A few times a week, a stranger (not coincidentally, almost always a Conservative Christian guy), drops into my comments sections and attempts to “out me;” sharing all manner of theories

I’m Not With These Christians
My parents always said to be careful who you associate yourself with because you are known by the company you keep—that the people around you reflect on you and manufacture

Why My Faith is Political
“You should stay out of politics and stick to preaching the Gospel.” – Bill, a Christian Several times a day I’m chided by a well-meaning friend, complete stranger, or soon-to-be-disconnecting

The American Church Needs Brave Christians
Right now, if it really believes what it preaches, the American Church has one foot in Hell and one on a banana peel—and this God-forsaken wannabe theocracy, is that banana peel.

Missing The America That Never Was
I’ve shed many misplaced tears recently. For a while I thought I was grieving over the loss of America; that I was missing something we used to be, a place

The Bible Doesn’t “Clearly Say” Very Much
A reader recently shared the following declaration, and it’s one I’ve heard about a billion times—give or take a few hundred thousand: “The Bible clearly says…” He said it, as

No, Christian—People are Not “Struggling With Same-Sex Attraction”
“He/she struggles with same-sex attraction.” I’d never heard this phrase until I started working at a church. Come to think of it I still rarely hear it outside of the

Death by a Thousand Tweets (Avoiding Despair on Social Media)
I’ve started to believe that social media is slowly killing us. I think it’s killing us one Tweet at a time. I sense our hearts are all slowly bleeding out.

How to Know if You’re Being a Terrible Person
I come bearing good news: You’re wrong about the world. Everything is fine. Bad people are a myth. They simply do not exist. Seriously. There are no racists in the

How The Christian Right Turned the Good News into Fake News
The bullhorn-wielding sign wavers and pulpit-pounding preachers are right: Jesus condemned many things in the Bible. He condemned those who neglected the poor and the marginalized. He condemned those who

Where Have So Many White Christians Gone?
You’d have thought November 9th, 2016 actually was the date of the Rapture. In the twinkling of an eye, millions of Christians (most of them white) seemingly disappeared that day

The Church That is Making People Homeless
Every day I meet more and more homeless people. It isn’t that these men and women are without a physical place to dwell, it’s that they have found themselves internally displaced.

Carrie Fisher and the Dark Side of Mental Illness
Carrie Fisher’s autopsy reports revealed that at the time of her death she had a cocktail of numerous illicit and prescription drugs in her system. The news, as it always

The Left Loves America
There’s a common assertion about those of us who occupy some space in the political or religious Left, by our critics across the aisle or the pew: We don’t love

To My LGBTQ Friends, On Father’s Day
Dear Friend, Father’s Day is nearly here and I was thinking about you. I was wondering what this day is like for you. You might have a really good relationship with

So Trump Supporter, What Do You Love Most About Him?
So, I see you’re still supporting Donald Trump. Look, I know you have your reasons (and there are so many to choose from), but thought maybe you could narrow it

Humanity’s Death by Hot Take
Watch the news today and notice what happens: There will be a shooting. Someone will die. There will be a national disaster. A terrorist will strike. Tragedy will befall someone. And

The God I No Longer Believe In
“Do you believe in God?” People have asked me that question for my entire life. The answer used to be simple and quick, almost involuntary. I had a tidy little

Please Stop Calling Suicide Victims Selfish or Weak
Soon after news broke about the death of Linkin Park singer Chester Bennington, amid the flood of condolences and the raw expressions of grief and shock—came the others; the ones

No, Being Gay (or Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender) is Not a Sin
Being gay is not a sin. Neither is being lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. The Bible never claims that it is. It really doesn’t. Christians should stop saying it because it’s

John McCain’s Illness is a Tragedy—and That’s Why The Healthcare Debate Matters
John McCain seems like a good and decent man, and his Cancer diagnosis is horrific. It’s the kind of news that makes you sick to your stomach; a tragedy for

Why the Atheists, Agnostics, and Non-Christians Will Save The Church
During a Q & A following a session at Wild Goose Festival, a man asked if I ever considered starting a church. I answered that I didn’t think so, because most

At This Point, I Don’t Care Why You Still Support This President
I care deeply about people. My efficacy and usefulness as a pastor and caregiver (and as a decent member of humanity), is predicated on knowing how people’s hearts work, the

Eugene Peterson, LifeWay—and the Big, Green God of American Christianity
A lot can change in a day… Last week, influential Christian pastor Eugene Peterson came out in support of LGBTQ inclusion and gay marriage. It was a massive tremor in

To the Guys Who “Outed Me” This Week
A few times a week, a stranger (not coincidentally, almost always a Conservative Christian guy), drops into my comments sections and attempts to “out me;” sharing all manner of theories

I’m Not With These Christians
My parents always said to be careful who you associate yourself with because you are known by the company you keep—that the people around you reflect on you and manufacture

Why My Faith is Political
“You should stay out of politics and stick to preaching the Gospel.” – Bill, a Christian Several times a day I’m chided by a well-meaning friend, complete stranger, or soon-to-be-disconnecting

The American Church Needs Brave Christians
Right now, if it really believes what it preaches, the American Church has one foot in Hell and one on a banana peel—and this God-forsaken wannabe theocracy, is that banana peel.

Missing The America That Never Was
I’ve shed many misplaced tears recently. For a while I thought I was grieving over the loss of America; that I was missing something we used to be, a place

The Bible Doesn’t “Clearly Say” Very Much
A reader recently shared the following declaration, and it’s one I’ve heard about a billion times—give or take a few hundred thousand: “The Bible clearly says…” He said it, as

No, Christian—People are Not “Struggling With Same-Sex Attraction”
“He/she struggles with same-sex attraction.” I’d never heard this phrase until I started working at a church. Come to think of it I still rarely hear it outside of the

Death by a Thousand Tweets (Avoiding Despair on Social Media)
I’ve started to believe that social media is slowly killing us. I think it’s killing us one Tweet at a time. I sense our hearts are all slowly bleeding out.

How to Know if You’re Being a Terrible Person
I come bearing good news: You’re wrong about the world. Everything is fine. Bad people are a myth. They simply do not exist. Seriously. There are no racists in the

How The Christian Right Turned the Good News into Fake News
The bullhorn-wielding sign wavers and pulpit-pounding preachers are right: Jesus condemned many things in the Bible. He condemned those who neglected the poor and the marginalized. He condemned those who

Where Have So Many White Christians Gone?
You’d have thought November 9th, 2016 actually was the date of the Rapture. In the twinkling of an eye, millions of Christians (most of them white) seemingly disappeared that day

The Church That is Making People Homeless
Every day I meet more and more homeless people. It isn’t that these men and women are without a physical place to dwell, it’s that they have found themselves internally displaced.

Carrie Fisher and the Dark Side of Mental Illness
Carrie Fisher’s autopsy reports revealed that at the time of her death she had a cocktail of numerous illicit and prescription drugs in her system. The news, as it always

The Left Loves America
There’s a common assertion about those of us who occupy some space in the political or religious Left, by our critics across the aisle or the pew: We don’t love

To My LGBTQ Friends, On Father’s Day
Dear Friend, Father’s Day is nearly here and I was thinking about you. I was wondering what this day is like for you. You might have a really good relationship with

So Trump Supporter, What Do You Love Most About Him?
So, I see you’re still supporting Donald Trump. Look, I know you have your reasons (and there are so many to choose from), but thought maybe you could narrow it

Humanity’s Death by Hot Take
Watch the news today and notice what happens: There will be a shooting. Someone will die. There will be a national disaster. A terrorist will strike. Tragedy will befall someone. And

The God I No Longer Believe In
“Do you believe in God?” People have asked me that question for my entire life. The answer used to be simple and quick, almost involuntary. I had a tidy little